Getting Over Yourself

June 3, 2010

Forget about looking at their foreheads

Filed under: Tips — Barbara Rocha @ 9:51 am

Seeing people is really more calming than looking at the wall or at their foreheads. And, eye contact can’t be by rote, either. Eye contact really means paying attention to what’s going on. Look at (and see) people one at a time. Have a conversation with each one. Forget about looking at their foreheads–you’ll lose your energy and your connection.

Pay attention to what you’re saying, pay attention to the people you’re talking to, and pay attention to how their responding. Now you’re connecting and have control over yourself and the situation.

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