Getting Over Yourself

August 16, 2013

Stop feeling embarrassed

Filed under: Observations — Barbara Rocha @ 11:11 am
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Almost always giving in to embarrassment is a waste of everyone’s time. And you can be embarrassed about making a mistake, or embarrassed because people are praising you. I repeat, being embarrassed just prolongs the discomfort. Everyone’s.

When you make a mistake, focus on fixing it, rather than on your feeling that you do this way too often. It’s not about you, it’s about turning things around and getting back to the point–whether it’s in a meeting, at a party, or during a presentation.

And when you’ve done a fine job on your speech, your baking, or your performance, it’s still not about you. It’s about the clarity, the joy, or the freedom that you brought to the audience. So, when you graciously say “thank you,” and are grateful they enjoyed it as much as you did, you’ll all be happier.

When you feel embarrassed, you’re making it about you and drawing unneeded attention to yourself and away from the idea you were expressing.

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